May 19th, 2016
They do not need. Sex, they provided one way or another, children are adults and do not require care, life is good. Besides, life has a certain flow, a woman has certain habits, and marriage in this age – the refusal of the usual (which is hard), but because my husband can be (and usually are), children and even grandchildren, and you have to shoulder the burden more and this (though a little laundry men's socks!). And they say: "Beautiful, well earns, all she has a young lover … married? Yes, she does not want to! Why?. " Interestingly, this view is supported also by the free women over forty. They say their friends, acquaintances and relatives that his marriage absolutely not necessary. Perechislyayuttysyachu reasons against marriage, talk about their wonderful life in which there is absolutely no room for her husband.
Psychologists who specialize in the psychology of marriage and family, usually turn out beautiful self-sufficient women over forty, fully secured financially, to raise children with her lover. And the problem is the same: help to get married! These women go to psychologists, magicians, fortune tellers and psychics. They grab at any straw. They very much want to get married. While the children grew up about marriage do not think so – my thoughts were occupied by others. In addition, it was necessary to ensure that the most notorious self-sufficiency, it was necessary to make a career, earn money, etc., etc. But now children are grown, and what remained the woman? Beautiful, self-reliant, clever. In fact – with nothing. In the evenings, she returns to an empty apartment – and it is very, very cold emotionally. If she lives with children, in some respects it is even harder: the grown-up children their interests, their social circle in which the mother is not very fit, in fact, they may already have their own families.